You know, of course, that there are a million and one details involved in planning the perfect wedding. It all seems so confusing and overwhelming—who pays for what? What’s the best time of year for a wedding? What colors should you pick—and why? And is it really important to write all of those thank-you notes?

The reasons why we do some of the things we do, when it comes to weddings, are obscure and hidden in tradition. Some of the rules are hard and unchangeable, and some are a little more flexible. But when you get right to it, there are ten major areas of stress for every bride. Here they are—with some ideas about how to navigate. Relax—and enjoy the process!

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